Saturday, September 29, 2012
Week 6 discussion - Question 2
In "Listening is a 10 part skill", I learned that it is good to always find an area of interest when listening because most people become bad listeners after they've decided nothing is interesting them in the communication happening. So, always ask yourself what is this speaker saying that I can use. The word "use" is the key to finding an interest in whatever topic someone is talking about. I also learned that as a listener, you are supposed to judge the content of a speech instead of how you feel about the speaker and to "hold your fire" if you do disagree with the things being said. Note taking and working on listening better is also a key skill because note taking can increase your knowledge about the ideas and having enough energy to listen will improve listening skills. Lastly, I learned that it is best to free ourselves of distraction when listening because most people talk at a fast speed and without distractions, we can listen better.
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I think that having a common area of interest is definitely essential to effective communication and listening. If the person is already bored when the conversation begins it's going to be very hard for them to listen and engage in a subject that really doesn't peak there interest. However, I feel that people need to be more open and welcoming to a broader array of topics. Sometimes we get so hyperfocused on things that only interest us that we neglect the interests of other people, which, if given the chance, can end up being really interesting to us.
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