Last week of discussion :( - Question 3

The concept that I truly enjoyed learning and even taught to my other friends was the section about committed romantic relationships. In this section of the book, I particularly paid attention to the styles of loving. The first style of loving is the primary style. It is eros, storge, and ludus. I was definitely interested because I did not know that there were many kinds of styles. The first one is the passionate style that happens fast and is very dramatic. This style is when people fall in love quickly and just have this crazy kind of affection for each other. Storge is the kind of love that comes out of a friendship. This is the love that doesn't happen right away, but is developed over time. Lastly, ludus is a playful style of love. The people who uses this style do not take the relationship seriously and sees it as a game. This kind of love are more common on men than in women. These styles of loving was interesting to me because I did not know that the things I see in life can fall into these categories.